...and on to more postive things...

....so the Little Man is doing quite well and amazes me every day with his maturity. Mark and both question where he received that from. I've never met a 4 year old that could put a 36 year old man in his place and teach him a lesson. It has been great. Although I could really deal better with less attitude but I keep telling myself its a phase.

We went to Harrisburg this week to see the All-American (it's a cow show for the non farm friends). Saw a lot of friends and Jacob got to hang out with Charlene (my brother's girlfriend) and walk a cow. He was on poop duty but never got to put it to practice which I am sure was a relief for him. Soccer didn't go so well last week, let's just say he didn't like the other team taking his ball. We will see how it goes this weekend....keep your fingers crossed. Pre-School is going well and the teachers said he is quite a perfectionist (staying in the lines, wanting to finish his work before moving on, everything has a place, etc).....again, Mark and I question if he was born from alien genetics. Oh well, that is just what makes him him I guess. One day I will figure out how to post pictures, or get time to....that would be the bigger factor!

Politics.....a rant

.....so am I the only one tired of seeing all the commercial's on TV regarding the election. I guess I don't believe anything that is on any of them...its just one slam against another. If they spent half of their money (as in both candidates) that they are spending on TV ads and did something to stimulate the economy instead of slamming the other, maybe we would be better off. I guess I am really tired of them telling what the other isn't or is doing and how its hurting us....I want facts on what they are going to do. Maybe then I would trust the whole politcal scheme. And what is with all the Palin bashing?! I am not saying I am for or against her but I haven't even heard a wisper about Biden.....why is that? It's all just annoying and I would like to believe that they are not targeting her because she is female but I know the media is biased to begin with but lets get some truths out there about both candidates!

I wouldn't say I am either conservative or democrat but lean more conservative but consider myself moderate. I have just found myself not wanting to put either an Obama or McCain sign in my yard....because neither one makes me really excited. Both scare me one way or another and well, since they are politicians, I really trust nothing they say. Show me what you have done with what you have handed to you and I will give you a grade then. I guess I need to see the debates to really make my mind up (although I think it is already) but that might be like pulling my nails out to sit and watch it. I guess it boils down to the fact that even though I will vote, and I do live in a "swing" state, it won't really matter....sigh....

VMA's

I usually don't post about mindless TV.....but due to my allergies taking a real hit on me late last night I ended up watching the MTV VMA's. And I have to say I remember it being a big production when I was younger, key word younger, since I discovered last night it is 25 years old now. Sheesh. But this year seemed like it was one step away from a side show at a circus. No real big productions and it seemed more like a bad high school prom. None of the performers were all that memorable, some I didn't even know. Yes, I am getting old! I digress.....I might as well start wearing the mom jeans, drive a soccer mom car and get disgusted with new music......ok, well never, but eh, getting old sucks.

On the flip side of my little rant, Jacob is doing quite well. I guess quite well since he has only had 2 tantrums over the last week. What gives? I guess maybe the change of going to pre-school, napping later, who knows. But loosing his dinosaurs for a week might fix it. I had a fun weekend at the Gettysburg Wine Festival....fun, being used very loosely. If anyone has heard of that thing called a hurricane going through the east coast, yes I was there with the downpours, in grass that turned into a lake, standing on palates, slugging wine out and by the way holding on to our tent in hopes that it didn't blow away. Yesterday was better, and a bit busier, but my ass is beat! This weekend brings judging at the PA State 4-H show and then hopefully getting off on Sunday to see the family. I have either been gone or working every weekend since July...I need a reprieve!

moving away...

...ok, so for the record, we are not moving (again!). But a very good friend of mine who has a daughter the same age as Jacob is.....now I know what it feels like! I guess I took for granted for all the times I have moved in my life, well over 15 times, I never really thought what it was like for the people I left behind. I guess now I am getting a taste of my own medicine!

I am really going to miss McKinsey and Olivia when they leave for Michigan in 2 weeks. We have been here over 2 years so we are bit limited in who we know, but McKinsey and I really clicked. She is dry and sarcastic and in general a lot of fun to be around. Sigh....I guess that will all change but I know they are moving for all the right reasons so I won't put a magic hex on them or anything (plus I am out of magic spells at the moment).

So, for everyone that I have ever moved away from.....I am sorry....I get it how much it really sucks now! I was able to go somewhere new and start over (which sucks by the way) and you were stuck in well, wherever it was I left you (Missouri, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Virgina, California and all the towns in between)! But considering Jacob is only 4 and has moved 3 times in his life I guess we have another gypsy on our hands!

Childless and the Olympics....not the Young and the Restless

So I just returned from a whirlwind trip to deliver Jacob to CA for his week with is Grandparents. I have to say that at 33, jet lag is not my friend. We left Friday afternoon and caught a flight in Harrisburg and didn't get to the in-laws house until 1am....west coast time. That means I was up at this point for 22 hours straight. Jacob slept for the better part of the journey so he was well rested and up the next morning as soon as the sun came up.

Saturday we visited old friends and then a nap eluded me. Sunday I was having an Arbonne Party for my Mother-in-law, which went quite well I might add.....but then some of the family stuck around so again, no nap to catch up. Monday I took Jacob to our old hairdresser that he used to go to, to of course get the mop chopped and catch up. Then off on a plane at 6pm from Chico to a 4 hour layover in San Fran, leaving at 11pm west coast time (2am east coast) and arriving into Chicago for another 2 hour layover arriving late morning to Harrisburg. I am still recovering! It's kind of like being hung over after your turn 30....you can do it, but it kicks your ass for a few days extra. I have no idea how I used to do the red eyes after visiting Mark when we were dating and working the next morning....blah!

So, Mark and I are childless for the week.....the most exciting thing we have done has created our own version of Wii Wars, mainly tennis....yes, we are sad but we laugh the majority of the time. I have to work at the winery this weekend, so thankfully he will be making dinner. But hopefully before then, I can get some sleep.....here is where the Olympics comes in.

The last time I was watching the summer Olympics, was when Jacob was 2 months old. It really has put it in perspective how much time has flown. Plus the damn Olympics are keeping me up at night and the Internet is absolutely no help. If I knew the damn results I could fall asleep on time! Ok, so that is a random rant, but can't China release the news faster! I know they have control issues (scary place), but can't they give this poor american a break?!

Cover Boy...

....so awhile back I had sent a picture in of Jacob into an association we belong to (Holstein Association USA) when they were having a picture contest. Well a week ago I received an email asking to use one of Jacob's pictures for promotional material. I of course said "yes", and yes I will post the picture later. But it turns out that they are going to use a picture of Jacob for the cover of their 2009 Holstein Foundation Calender.....ok, so you won't see his face but its a pic of the back of his head.....but its a cute head!

Sick twist of fate

So.....it has been a long 2 weeks with lots to report. It starts off Jacob and I heading to my parents on the 26th of June so I could drop him off for his week long visit and my departure to TX to visit a very good friend and her new baby. That evening we received a call that a very good friend of the family was hit by a car while walking her dog on a back road with her sister. Absolute shock sent in. We had heard it was a 17 year old boy and she was life flighted to a hospital...still shock. We knew she was alive and was thrown approx. 20 feet into a bush. The bush broke her fall and probably saved her life. In the process her dog as hit as well....that dog was her life. As the events folded out, the 17 year old flipped the car after he hit her after loosing control. The next person on the scene was a local doctor, godsend. He stayed with her the whole way. The following person was on his way to the local vet, godsend. He took her dog to the vet, hopefully to save its life. This friend is a dear person and would never do anything to anyone, as is her family. I was so bitter towards the teenager who hit her. Not much sleep happened that night.

The next day we were due to go to a Family Day at a local amusement park where upon talking with another friend I found out who the 17 year old was. Her sister, who goes to school with him found out through the "vine". The boy is my best friend, who I was about ready to go and visit.....her brother. He is not a "bad" kid at all, very smart, responsible and usually a nerdy driver. I was absolutely speechless....it was a sick twist of fate. For some reason my attitude changed toward it all...I couldn't' be pissed so much anymore but yet felt like I should. My loyalties were really divided in a sense.

As the details unfolded, the 17 year old said someone came into his lane, he over corrected and then veered to the left, hit my friend, over corrected again and flipped the car. I guess there was a witness that came forward and backed his story, but then again, does it really matter? Here he was, 2 months into his license, celebrating a birthday, no drugs/drinks...again, he is that clean. And this is something he will live with forever, undoubtedly.

My friend has survived, but had a list of injuries....a broken collarbone, broken pelvis, compound fractures in her leg with with be a hindrance for the rest of her life, cracked bone in her neck, bruised kidneys, spleen and liver. Thank God she is alive, but what a long road ahead. I spoke to her before I left and the only thing she said she needed when asked, was a new ass since hers hurt so much. So here I sat leaving one friend to see another who were more connected then they would ever know, but yet did not know each other.

The boy's family has suffered too mind you. Aside from this accident, they have dealt with a layoff that has been his fathers job for well over 20 years (manufacturing is dying there), a sister/aunt who is dying of cancer and then this.....the cup runeth over. I am sure the insurance companies are going to suing for her, understandable. I feel for them as well. They are a good family as well, but nobody deserves that either.

So I am torn, feeling for both families......my heart breaks for both of them and I hate to be the link in between. I have not been able to let my brain stop thinking about it....that could have been Jacob driving down the road....that could of been me walking...anything is possible. Now I understand how the soaps on TV are created, except now I am living it......